Take a walk in my shoes
Angie: 30 THINGS TO STOP DOING TO YOURSELF
“LIFE IS NOT ABOUT FINDING YOURSELF. IT’S ABOUT CREATING YOURSELF”
- Stop spending time with the wrong people. - Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a…
I just want to stop caring about people. I feel like I am always worrying about everyone else except myself. No one is really concerned about me. It’s like I can’t ignore texts and phone calls. When I know I don’t have to respond and I don’t have to answer. I have so much going on in my life right now and everything is starting to be a little overwhelming. I feel all over the place and unorganized. I’m not focused. I really don’t know what’s going on with me. But I shouldn’t let it affect what matters the most in my life..but it is. I need a break from it all. But I know that is not going to happen anytime soon. Smh.
Once upon a time..
There was a tall, handsome,king that stole a queen’s heart in a way that no male has ever done.
He was able to make her extremely happy and everything seemed to be fine.
They were talking all the time. He was saying sweet/corny things to her.
Always making her smile.
6 months in she started to really notice his nonchalant attitude.
She told him about it. They argued about it.
And he fixed it a little.
A month later she had an issue with a friend of his and he had an issue with a friend of hers. And she had many issues with the lack of respect towards their relationship.
And they argued once again.
But they got it together again.
2-3 months later..they argued about the most ridiculous things once again. (Miscommunication, not seeing each other, blah) Including arguing about arguing.
They called it quits.
But then they got it together again.
And BOOM
..He was then faced with an ultimatum.
(Look at it this way, if you love someone you take risks)
He didn’t want to take that risk with the queen. And left her sad,lonely, and depressed.
For days she cried. She didn’t understand why.? She felt unwanted and betrayed.
Meanwhile he’s feeling guilty. But he could have took the risk.
She reaches out to an old friend. He helps her to take her mind off of things a little.
She appreciates her friend very much for that.
They hang out.
The king and the queen begin to communicate again.
The queen tells the king that she can’t live without him. The king feels the same way.
They get back together.
They hung out. But it didn’t feel the same to the queen. He didn’t seem too interested.
The queen didn’t tell him that because she didn’t want to start an argument.
But then things started to go back to normal.
Then one nite, the queen got a little tipsy and invited friends over. And she ended up doing something she never thought she would do, hurting the king in the worst way possible.
She woke up the next morning feeling terrible..knowing that she had to tell the king.
She told him. And as expected. He was hurt. He was angry. He was upset. And there was nothing the queen could do or say.
She loved him very much and she hated what she did. But he was done.
A week later..the king told the queen she could earn his trust back.
She wanted to..but she just felt that there was no way that she could.
And they fell apart.
